Tuesday, November 27, 2012
As the holidays approach a teenager's behavior can sometimes escalate and this can leave a parent with a decision that they don't want to make. How can they send their child into a teen help program during this time of the year?
As a Parent Advocate and Parent Consultant, I share with parents that you have many years ahead of you to have many wonderful holidays together - however in some cases, it can mean saving your child's life by removing them from not-so-safe situations - especially if they are involved in drug use or hanging out with unsavory groups of what they consider friends. With the extra time off from school -it sometimes can add up to more time for trouble.
Are you struggling with your teenager? Confused about what school or program is best for their needs? I founded Parent's Universal Resource Experts, Inc over a decade ago for parents that are at their wit's end - after I was duped and my daughter abused at a program that mislead us. Our experiences are only to help educate parents - there are more good programs than there are not so good one. It is up to you to do your due diligence.
Remember, family is a priority - your child's welfare comes first. There will always be more holidays - let's be sure your child's safety and security are first and foremost.
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
When a teen threatens to runaway or actually does, it can be a parent's nightmare. It seems a teenager doesn't seem to realize that holidays are supposed to be a time of joy.
The National Runaway Switchboard estimates that up to 2.8 million children and teens run away from home each year. Many return home within the first 24 hours, but there are still a staggering number that never make it home.
Here are some tips for parents:
Building the Foundation for a Healthy Teen & Parent Relationship
Building a good foundation increases the potential for a good relationship.
Do’s and Don’ts For Parents With Teenagers
If only it was this simple. Here are some effective tips for dealing with your teenager.
What To Do If Your Child Runs Away From Home
What should I do if my child runs away from home?
More Runaway Prevention Tips For Parents
The more tips the better when it comes to parenting.
Setting Goals & Expectations
Give kids a map and maybe, just maybe they'll find their way.
What To Do When Your Child Returns Home
What should I do when my child comes back?
The Challenges of Raising a Teen
Normal adolescent rebellion or something more serious?
Basic Parenting Tips
Good parenting is a combination of role modeling, teaching and friendship.
Do as I say AND as I do
Nothing erodes the delicate parent/teen relationship faster than for a child to hear one thing and see another.
Tips for Parents: Have Fun!
Learning life's lessons doesn't always have to be serious. Lighten up and have some fun.
Step-parenting adds another dimension, particularly when your blended family includes biological and step-children.
Parents Matter: Tips for Raising Teenagers
Parents of teenagers may have the toughest job around.
Set Guidelines for Good Behavior
Setting rules and guidelines for the children in your care helps them learn safe, healthy and socially acceptable behavior.
Navigating through life isn't easy, but with parents acting as guideposts the trip is a little easier.
Signs My Teen Might Be Thinking About Running Away From Home
Find out what you should be looking for.
Guidelines for Parents with Kids in Cyberspace
Know what your kids are doing on line. Talk, be open, educate yourself, and check it out.
Courtesy of National Runaway Switchboard.
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Saturday, November 10, 2012
Maybe they are not troubled, they have always been a good kid, but now they are making some really bad choices - hanging with the less than positive influences - smoking some pot (not to mention the cigarettes) - drinking - and starting to fail in school.
We have even watched our teen drift away from the things they used to love such as sports, dance, music, hobbies, etc.
Defiance, lack of respect, underachieving, withdrawing from family activities, and simply a child you no longer recognize - where did your happy toddler go?
This scenario is very common, it happened to me over a decade ago - and is the reason I created my organization - Parents' Universal Resource Experts.
I don't want to rehash my story here, you can read it on www.aparentstruestory.com or in my books Wit's End! Advice and Resources for Saving Your Out of Control Teen.
I want to help you a bit as you are searching the Internet for help for your own teenager.
The Internet can be an educational tool and a lethal weapon - as it has been for me. After my experiences with a horrific program, and I defeated them in a jury trial - the keyboard was a way to attack legally. Again, all in the past - I have fought hard to continue to be a voice for families and in this big business of teen help. I won two jury trials - and all the appeals they threw at me. Fact remains - no one condones child abuse and neglect - and I was awarded damages for what the defamation caused me.
This brings us to why I titled this Red River Academy? As someone that helps parents when they are doing research - I just want to be sure they are doing their due diligence when they are searching. Keep in mind. Where there is smoke - there is fire.
Need help? Take your time - remember, this is a major financially and emotional decision.
Tuesday, November 6, 2012
Sure - all is possible - but why risk it? Getting your teen the help they need is a parent's responsibility. I am not saying that rushing into a residential treatment center is your first option - on the contrary, it is your last.
You need to exhaust all your local resources first. Therapy, peer support groups, maybe outpatient, living with a relative, youth counselors..... If the behavior continues to escalates you can't be a parent in denial. Once the therapy isn't working - your teen is actually holding you hostage in your home - and taking control of your family - you literally feel like you are walking on eggshells - you have to reach out for help.
The Internet, as much as it is an educational tool, can also be a deceptive device. Parents have to do their due diligence when researching schools and programs.
Many therapists are excellent in working with your families however are not familiar with residential therapy programs aka specialty program or therapeutic boarding schools. They know of adolescent wards in hospitals but most of the time that is not what these type of teens need. They are in need of emotional growth.
Now the Internet again can be deceiving. You may see programs that offer these wonderful attributes but do they?
I was scammed and duped over a decade ago - which is why I created Parents' Universal Resource Experts. I encourage you to review my site and especially the helpful hints and tips for looking for schools and programs.
There are more good programs than there are not so good programs. It is just a matter of doing your research. Don't allow these toll free marketing arms convince you that you need to make a quick and rash decision.
Call us today - we can help you get educated on this big business of teen help.